Kedudukan & Derajat Hadits “Surga
Berada Dibawah Kaki Ibu”
" SELAMAT HARI IBU "
“
Surga berada dibawah telapak kaki para ibu, bagi siapa yang mereka
kehendaki mereka akan masukkan kedalam surga dan bagi siapa yang mereka
kehendaki mereka akan keluarkan dari surga. ”
Al-Hindi menyebutkan hadits ini di dalam al-Kanz no. 45439, dari hadits
Anas bin Malik. Dan hadits tersebut diriwayatkan oleh al-Qudha’i,
ad-Daulabi, Abu asy-Syaikh di dalam al-Fawa`id dan selain mereka. Pada
sanadnya terdapat Manshur bin al-Muhajir dan Abu an-Nazhar al-Abaar
keduanya perawi yang tidak dikenal. Hadits ini juga diriwayatkan oleh
Ibnu Adi dan al-’Uqaili dari hadits Ibnu Abbas. Pada sanadnya terdapat
Musa bin Atha` dan dia seorang pendusta. Syaikhul Islam Ibnu Taimiyah
rahimahullah mengatakan, ”Saya tidak mengetahui hadits ini secara lafazh
diriwayatkan secara marfu’ dengan sanad yang shahih.” Ibnu Thahir
menghukumi hadits ini sebagai hadits yang mungkar. Syaikh al-Albani
menghukumi hadits dengan lafazh ini sebagai hadits yang maudhu`, seperti
tertera di dalam adh-Dha’ifah no. 593, untuk lebih jelas silahkan
merujuk kepada kitab beliau rahimahullah ta’ala.
Dan sebagai faidah, asy-Syaikh al-Albani di dalam kitab tersebut dan
juga di dalam al-Irwa` (5/21) menyebutkan hadits yang semakna dari
hadits Mu’awiyah bin Jahimah, bahwa Jahimah datang menemui nabi
shallallahu ’alaihi wasallam dan berkata, ”Wahai Rasulullah saya
berkeinginan untuk turut berperang, dan saya datang untuk bermusyawarah
dengan anda?” Maka beliau menjawab, ”Apakah engkau memiliki ibu?” Dia
menjawab, ”Iya.” Beliau lalu bersabda, ”Tetaplah engkau bersamanya,
karena surga berada dibawah kedua kakinya.” HR. An-Nasa`i (no.3104),
al-Hakim (2/104, 4/151), Ahmad (3/429), Ibnu Abi Syaibah di dalam
al-Musnad (2/7/2).
Al-Hakim berkata ”sanadnya shahih” dan disetujui oleh adz-Dzahabi. Saya
(al-Albani) berkata, ”Demikian yang mereka katakan, sedangkan Thalhan
bin abdullah tidak seorangpun yang men-tsiqahkannya selain Ibnu Hibban,
namun beberapa perawi telah meiwayatkan darinya. Dengan begitu dia
seorang yang hasan hadits-nya insya Allah. Di dalam at-Taqrib disebutkan
–tentang dirinya-, ”Maqbul.” Dan terdapat mutaba’ah (penguat) baginya
oleh Muhammad bin Ishaq bin Thalhah, diriwayatkan oleh Ibnu Majah (2781)
…”
Ucapan Selamat Hari ibu
BERTAHUN-TAHUN IBU MENGASUHKU
BERTAHUN-TAHUN PULA AKU TAK BERTERIMA KASIH
AKU TELAH LUPA AKAN JASA IBUKU
AKU TELAH LUPA SEMUA DOSAKU PADA IBUKU
Kutahu, bunda
Tanganmu tak pernah lepas berharap untukku
dalam setiap do’a yang kau panjatkan
Kutahu bunda
Senyummu selalu menyapa dalam setiap kata cinta
yang keluar dari lisanmu
Kutahu bunda
Mata hatimu selalu terjaga dalam setiap derapku
IBU….
SEMBILAN BULAN ENGKAU BERJUANG MENGANDUNGKU
LALU ENGKAU BERTARUH NYAWA MELAHIRKANKU
PERJUANGANMU SUNGGUH BERAT IBUKU
MAAFKAN AKU IBUKU….
AKU TAK PERNAH BERTERIMA KASIH ATAS JASAMU
Andai aku bisa, bunda
Kan kubalas segenap cinta dan kasihmu
Andai aku mampu, bunda
Kan kupersembahkan seterang kilauanmu,
sehangat dekapanmu, setulus kasihmu,
dan sebijak nasihatmu
IBU,
MAAFKAN ANAKMU YANG BANYAK BERDOSA PADAMU INI
SEKARANG, AKU AKAN BERTERIMA KASIH PADAMU
ATAS SEGALA JASAMU YANG TAKKAN BISA KUBALAS
SAMPAI KAPANPUN
Mothers are fonder than fathers of their children because they are more
certain they are their own. ~Aristotle
A man's work is from sun to sun, but a mother's work is never done.
~Author Unknown
Making the decision to have a child is momentous. It is to decide
forever to have your heart go walking around outside your body.
~Elizabeth Stone
Parents often talk about the younger generation as if they didn't have
anything to do with it. ~Haim Ginott
Sing out loud in the car even, or especially, if it embarrasses your
children. ~Marilyn Penland
Each day of our lives we make deposits in the memory banks of our
children. ~Charles R. Swindoll, The Strong Family
There is only one pretty child in the world, and every mother has it.
~Chinese Proverb
Never raise your hand to your kids. It leaves your groin unprotected.
~Red Buttons
If nature had arranged that husbands and wives should have children
alternatively, there would never be more than three in a family.
~Lawrence Housman
Setting a good example for your children takes all the fun out of middle
age. ~William Feather, The Business of Life, 1949
Your responsibility as a parent is not as great as you might imagine.
You need not supply the world with the next conqueror of disease or
major motion-picture star. If your child simply grows up to be someone
who does not use the word "collectible" as a noun, you can consider
yourself an unqualified success. ~Fran Lebowitz, "Parental Guidance,"
Social Studies, 1981
A mother is a person who seeing there are only four pieces of pie for
five people, promptly announces she never did care for pie. ~Tenneva
Jordan
Hundreds of dewdrops to greet the dawn,
Hundreds of bees in the purple clover,
Hundreds of butterflies on the lawn,
But only one mother the wide world over.
~George Cooper
Being a full-time mother is one of the highest salaried jobs... since
the payment is pure love. ~Mildred B. Vermont
The sweetest sounds to mortals given
Are heard in Mother, Home, and Heaven.
~William Goldsmith Brown
If you have a mom, there is nowhere you are likely to go where a prayer
has not already been. ~Robert Brault, www.robertbrault.com
A suburban mother's role is to deliver children obstetrically once, and
by car forever after. ~Peter De Vries
If the whole world were put into one scale, and my mother in the other,
the whole world would kick the beam. ~Lord Langdale (Henry Bickersteth)
Mothers hold their children's hands for a short while, but their hearts
forever. ~Author Unknown
The moment a child is born, the mother is also born. She never existed
before. The woman existed, but the mother, never. A mother is
something absolutely new. ~Rajneesh
All mothers are working mothers. ~Author Unknown
When you are a mother, you are never really alone in your thoughts. A
mother always has to think twice, once for herself and once for her
child. ~Sophia Loren, Women and Beauty
Mother love is the fuel that enables a normal human being to do the
impossible. ~Marion C. Garretty, quoted in A Little Spoonful of Chicken
Soup for the Mother's Soul
Mother - that was the bank where we deposited all our hurts and worries.
~T. DeWitt Talmage
A mother is a mother still,
The holiest thing alive.
~Samuel Taylor Coleridge
The real religion of the world comes from women much more than from men -
from mothers most of all, who carry the key of our souls in their
bosoms. ~Oliver Wendell Holmes
God could not be everywhere and therefore he made mothers. ~Jewish
Proverb
A mother understands what a child does not say. ~Author Unknown
I remember my mother's prayers and they have always followed me. They
have clung to me all my life. ~Abraham Lincoln
It would seem that something which means poverty, disorder and violence
every single day should be avoided entirely, but the desire to beget
children is a natural urge. ~Phyllis Diller
Woman in the home has not yet lost her dignity, in spite of Mother's
Day, with its offensive implication that our love needs an annual
nudging, like our enthusiasm for the battle of Bunker Hill. ~John
Erskine
Women's Liberation is just a lot of foolishness. It's the men who are
discriminated against. They can't bear children. And no one's likely
to do anything about that. ~Golda Meir
A man loves his sweetheart the most, his wife the best, but his mother
the longest. ~Irish Proverb
Before I got married I had six theories about bringing up children; now I
have six children, and no theories. ~John Wilmot
You don't really understand human nature unless you know why a child on a
merry-go-round will wave at his parents every time around - and why his
parents will always wave back. ~William D. Tammeus
Mother, the ribbons of your love are woven around my heart. ~Author
Unknown
Now that... my kids are grown, I understand how much work and love it
takes to raise and to keep a family together. The example of your
strength, devotion, and patience is now rippling through the
generations. Thank you! ~Forest Houtenschil
Biology is the least of what makes someone a mother. ~Oprah Winfrey
Motherhood is priced
Of God, at price no man may dare
To lessen or misunderstand.
~Helen Hunt Jackson
Are we not like two volumes of one book? ~Marceline Desbordes-Valmore
It kills you to see them grow up. But I guess it would kill you quicker
if they didn't. ~Barbara Kingsolver, Animal Dreams
Who fed me from her gentle breast
And hushed me in her arms to rest,
And on my cheek sweet kisses prest?
My Mother.
~Ann Taylor
Who ran to help me when I fell,
And would some pretty story tell,
Or kiss the place to make it well?
My mother.
~Ann Taylor
A mother's heart is a patchwork of love. ~Author Unknown
On Mother's Day I have written a poem for you. In the interest of
poetic economy and truth, I have succeeded in concentrating my deepest
feelings and beliefs into two perfectly crafted lines: You're my
mother, I would have no other! ~Forest Houtenschil
Mom, when thoughts of you are in our hearts, we are never far from home.
~Author Unknown
Children are a great comfort in your old age - and they help you reach
it faster, too. ~Lionel Kauffman
Mother is the name for God in the lips and hearts of little children.
~William Makepeace Thackeray
A mother is the truest friend we have, when trials heavy and sudden,
fall upon us; when adversity takes the place of prosperity; when friends
who rejoice with us in our sunshine desert us; when trouble thickens
around us, still will she cling to us, and endeavor by her kind precepts
and counsels to dissipate the clouds of darkness, and cause peace to
return to our hearts. ~Washington Irving
This heart, my own dear mother, bends,
With love's true instinct, back to thee!
~Thomas Moore
Insanity is hereditary; you get it from your children. ~Sam Levenson
The one thing children wear out faster than shoes is parents. ~John J.
Plomp
Most mothers are instinctive philosophers. ~Harriet Beecher Stowe
Before a day was over,
Home comes the rover,
For mother's kiss - sweeter this
Than any other thing!
~William Allingham
I don't care how poor a man is; if he has family, he's rich. ~Dan
Wilcox and Thad Mumford, M*A*S*H, "Identity Crisis,"
Oh, the comfort, the inexpressible comfort of feeling safe with a
person, having neither to weigh thoughts nor measure words, but pouring
them all out, just as they are, chaff and grain together, certain that a
faithful hand will take and sift them, keep what is worth keeping, and
with a breath of kindness blow the rest away. ~Dinah Craik
Where we love is home - home that our feet may leave, but not our
hearts. ~Oliver Wendell Holmes, Sr.
In everyone's life, at some time, our inner fire goes out. It is then
burst into flame by an encounter with another human being. We should
all be thankful for those people who rekindle the inner spirit. ~Albert
Schweitzer
Let us be grateful to people who make us happy, they are the charming
gardeners who make our souls blossom. ~Marcel Proust
If I had a single flower for every time I think about you, I could walk
forever in my garden. ~Attributed to Claudia Ghandi
A Freudian slip is when you say one thing but mean your mother. ~Author
Unknown
Sweater, n.: garment worn by child when its mother is feeling chilly.
~Ambrose Bierce
All women become like their mothers. That is their tragedy. No man
does. That's his. ~Oscar Wilde, The Importance of Being Earnest, 1895
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